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How to

Impact Play

Curious about what it would be like to get spanked, swatted, flogged, or paddled?  Or the other way around?  Here is some advice on how to begin!

Impact play is a well-known, but often stereotyped and mis-portrayed, staple of BDSM play.  On the surface, it simply involves the use of hands or implements to strike a partner in a consensually pleasing way.  Below the surface impact play can be far more detailed and subtle and should be engaged in with very clear negotiations completed beforehand.  The is because the reasons for wanting to engage in impact play vary dramatically from person to person as do the specific means and thresholds by which they wish to enjoy it.

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