How to

How to use a strap on

So, you are interested in harnessing up and penetrating a partner?  Or maybe your partner is getting ready to penetrate YOU!  Get some tips on how to do that below!

Wearing a harness can be a bit intimidating at first, despite how simple it may appear.  While the concept and intended function is the same across all harnesses, there is variation on how some work.

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First, find the right equipment that suits your needs.  Most basic harnesses fit a wide range of bodies and accept a lot of dildos/attachments.  A basic harness is identified by having a waist strap and thigh straps that meet at central location and an o-ring.  However, there are a lot of specialty harnesses that may sized or intended for a specific purpose.  Also, some do not have changeable o-rings that limit the size of attachments that can be used.  It is easy to determine, just look for the ring and see if it is held with snaps.  

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Acceptable attachments/dildo for a standard harness with o-ring:  Any with flared base or suction cup.  A dildo with testicles/scrotum can work, but are not recommended.

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Attach dildo:  Suction cup - slightly fold suction cup and slide one end into and behind ring.  Bend the other end under and through the ring.  Flared base - loosen straps running through backer from behind the ring.  Once enough space is made, put dildo through ring until base rests against ring.  

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Put on harness:   Most harnesses are waist and thigh strapped, similar to a climbing harness.  

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Tighten straps:

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Specialty harnesses: 

Vac-u-lock

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Body Dock